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Single, Married, a soon to be, current or future Father, Step Father, Brother, Foster Dad, Uncle, Coach, Grandfather, Male Guardian... whatever stage of life you are in, this is the spot for you. YOU ARE WELCOME!


So God created man in his own image...and the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. Gen 1:27, 2:7 NIV

In the movie Black Panther, Killmonger is escorted to King T'Challa demanding the throne, with requests that seem outrageous, until he is asked "Ungubani" - "who are you?". He responds with his chest out in confident boldness and declares his name and his fathers' name giving  exercise to his blood right. It was the blood line that made the ridiculous request demanded bend to the weight of inheritance given by birth.


Sure, you may not be demanding the use of vibranium to defeat the enemies of those oppressed or fighting for the throne, but you have been created with the right, through the blood of Jesus, to approach the throne of grace with boldness. You were created to use your masculine inheritance granted to you by your Heavenly Father, God, to prevent/heal the oppression of generations and set the standard for the home. Don't believe me? According to the US Census Bureau, children living without a biological, step, or adoptive father (mentor)...




Man! You matter. You are our Kings, setting the standard of royal authority and mannerism based on the position and responsibility of being the first created. You were made with the super power to eliminate crime, poverty, incarceration, drug abuse, infant death and more. it doesn't matter if you are biologically dad, or someone who steps in as a teacher, mentor or coach. You presence as a male role model transforms lives. Remember who you are!!

Fellas and Fathers

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Old Asian Man
Portrait Man
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A Father's Day Poem


To have and to hold,

Til death do us part

The love that unfolds

Through this life’s journey sparks


My preacher and teacher

My friend and provider

My rock and my leader

The improv for my smilin’


The mold of my imprint

Seasoned wisdom

Trickling since an infant


Dad, Father, Papi, Grandpa, Abba

Your words implant trace minerals of encouragement


and life in courage meant

I didn’t have to be afraid to flourish


Because you believe in me,

I am able to walk in purpose


Home in occupied stance have our hearts full

No vacancy                               

Coaching beyond my status quo fills me with excellence

Your legacy


I am proud of the man you have become

Though mistakes are made

You remain to be the shoes my life learned to dance upon


And in your absence,

I secretly untied your footprints

Slipping in five little piggy’s,


Beginning with the one who went to the market

With no intimidation

But amazed at the grandeur spaced between us who are Parallel yet opposites

I progressed Step 1 …

moving forward in the soul acquired strength you LEFT

And continue to leave

Step 2…

I advanced RIGHT

Into the path of integrity learned from vicarious study of you



Cognition pours memories of thankfulness

Overflowing my heart with gratitude

Your love, patience, forgiveness and lessons are my Cornerstone and fortitude


You are the direct cause that effects my life

The touch down to my goal

And as the seconds multiply into decades

The one gift that never grows old is

My appreciation of you


Happy Father’s Day

From here to eternity

Eternity to you

- Written by Jessica Poche'

Life Light

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Healthy Relationships

Need Fathering Tips for Dad's who are Incarcerated? Check out this Article Four Ways Incarcerated Fathers can Help with Child's Education

Healthy You

Get yo Soul Right Bruh

Healthy Fathering

Freakin' Out about Fatherhood? Check out Boot Camp for New Dad's

"a unique father-to-father, community-based workshop that inspires and equips men of different economic levels, ages and cultures to become confidently engaged with their infants, support their mates and personally navigate their transformation into dads".

Separated or Divorced? Dad's Resource center offers "education, resources and advocacy for dads who are separated or divorced and are determined to uphold their sacred responsibility as fathers."

Dad's Resource Center

Are you a father raising a child with special needs? Dad's for Special Kids offers "invaluable information, encouragement and support to men who are striving to improve, enrich, and heal their own lives, and who are determined to provide their best to a child with special needs".

Dad's for Special Kids

Visit Fathers Incorporated for resources such as Gentle Warriors Academy, Real Dad's Read and other tools about Mental health, and having conversations with your child about civil unrest at

Fathers Incorporated

Looking for activities for you and your child(ren) from birth to out of the home and more visit this site Fatherhood

So your child is growing up huh? Do you want some quick tools on how to connect with your young adult and adult children? Check out this article How Fathers can be Close to their Young Adult Kids

This read offers a unique perspective from the lens of step children, offered by Desiring God Step Children

Are you apart of a Blended Family and need tools to help it flourish? Check out Yours, Mine and Ours video by Dr. David Ireland about Blended Family

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Dad! At A Widow's Fight we understand the need for fathers to learn bonding techniques with their children to not only help build stronger families, but to help reduce grief triggers and create relationship norms in the home in the event you become a single parent. Dad's and Daughters Hair

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         The Hair Dad


This husband and father of 4 shows the ins and outs of being a dad. Check out his channel Beleaf in fatherhood

Get yo Health Right Man

Fit Fathers Project - For Men 40+

Get yo Money Right Dude

Wait til I get my Money Right - Pastor Michael Todd

He Motions - Dr. TD Jakes

Biblical Manhood - Paul Washer

Celebrate Recovery - Overcome Addictions

Substance Abuse - Fatherhood

The Danger of Anger - Dr. Charles Stanley

Your Porn Battle Plan - Warrior - Pastor Craig Groeschel

Man in the Mirror - Anger, Pride, Relationships, Time Management, etc

Get yo Swag Right Bro

Table Manners - The Distilled Man

Manscape Like a Pro - Alex Costa

Single, Dating - How to date - Pastor Ben Stuart

How to Set Goals - Dave Ramsey


"Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you."

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